Tuesday, April 16, 2024

Grand is an Understatement

More than a month has passed since spring break, but life has been busy and as a result I'm just now circling back around to sharing our trip. It was certainly one we'll always remember!

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Though TAMU (Tom's employer) usually has the same spring break as the kids' school district, Tom doesn't actually get a spring break. He gets a break from teaching, yes. But the more stressful, time-consuming parts of his job don't stop. As a result, we've never been big spring break travelers. We either plan something of a staycation, with the kids and I taking day trips to/for nearby activities, experiences, and excursions, or we take a short trip to one of the big cities - San Antonio, Houston, Austin, Waco, or Dallas/Fort Worth - near us. We've also done a couple of treks north to visit our families, and the kids have each taken a 13-year-old birthday trip with their grandparents (Will to Washington D.C. and Hallie to New York City), but that's it for big trips over spring break.

* A few of our favorites (which I've posted about at the following links) include the Houston Aquarium, Blue Bell Creamery in Brenham, the River Walk and the Alamo in San Antonio, Zilker Park and The Thinkery (children's museum) in Austin, Dinosaur Park in Cedar Creek, the Houston and Waco Zoos, the beach in Galveston, and Family Farm in Plantersville

Last fall I started having a panic attack about how little time we have left with Will at home and decided we needed a solid spring break trip this - his junior - year. I had always wanted to visit the Grand Canyon, so when I was talking to our travel agent (the fabulous Courtney Henson with Travel Hut), I threw out that idea and she ran with it. 

On the first day of spring break (and just a few hours after the crazy night the Lads won the district championship), we flew from Houston to Phoenix, picked up our rental car, and headed north into the mountains. The drive was beautiful, as was the experience of traveling from palm trees and flat desert to spectacular mountain views in such a short period of time.



We stayed just south of Sedona, in the village of Oak Creek, at the Hilton Sedona Resort at Bell Rock. I ended up being SO happy we weren't actually staying in Sedona, as we discovered the morning after our arrival that half of Texas' population had the same idea as we did for spring break and all 15 million of them were staying in the Sedona area. Our resort was lovely - we enjoyed the pool (well, mostly just Hallie enjoyed the pool) and hot tub, and we took advantage of s'mores by the fire pit and stargazing - as was the rest of Oak Creek. Everything was within walking distance, and we visited a number of delicious restaurants as well as an outdoor market, a few quaint shops, and our new favorite grocery store, Clarks.





On our first full day we drove up Oak Creek Canyon Drive to take in the views, visited Chapel of the Holy Cross, and hiked the Bell Rock Pathway and Courthouse Butte Loop Trail. I LOVED hiking with Will and Hallie (Tom was sick so he skipped the hiking) - just hanging out with them in general - and was reminded frequently throughout this trip of how lucky I am to have such cool humans for kids.














On our second full day we hit the road early in the morning and headed toward the Grand Canyon. Our first stop was Maverick Helicopters, just outside Grand Canyon National Park. We went on an INCREDIBLE helicopter ride over and into the Grand Canyon, and let me tell you, from a helicopter is exactly how you should see this geographic wonder for the first time. 

You approach the Grand Canyon over a completely wooded area, so your view goes from woods below you to NOTHING below you in an instant. It is the ultimate rollercoaster ride.








The wonders of the Grand Canyon cannot be adequately represented in symbols of speech, nor by speech itself.     ~ John Wesley Powell

After our helicopter ride, we drove into the park. There are no words or photos to adequately describe the majesty of this place or the awe one feels when standing just steps away from something so truly Grand. It is seductive and mesmerizing, breathtaking and humbling. It is frighteningly beautiful and beautifully frightening. It is a place explained by science, yet touched by the hand of God. If you ever have the chance to visit, to see it for yourself, in person...take it.














We hiked all afternoon, mostly along the South Rim (the North Rim is only open seasonally). I wish we could have done a little of Bright Angel Trail, but after more than seven miles, all of our knees and hips were starting to complain. (Dancer knees and hips, plus soccer player knees and hips, plus 40+-year-old knees and hips...) We were tired, but in a happy and fulfilled kind of way, and we left to drive back to Sedona feeling like we'd just exactly what we needed and wanted to do while in the park. 

Travel note: our kids were the PERFECT age to visit the Grand Canyon. So many people were there with young children, and I simply could not have done that. There are so many places where the barriers between the public path and certain death are...well, nonexistent...and Tom and I agreed that we couldn't have truly experienced the Grand Canyon if we had been even a tiny bit worried that our kids wouldn't use good judgement and make safe decisions. I also wouldn't have been able to enjoy myself if I'd had to answer the question,"when are we going back to the hotel?" or listen to, "I'm tired of walking" all day long...and let me tell you, while we were there I heard lots of young kids asking this question, expressing this sentiment, and hitting a wall.

On our third full day we visited Sedona Loop Trail Disc Golf Course. Disc golf in the mountains is fantastic - this coming from someone who's not much of a fan - and this course was the prettiest and most interesting of any I've ever walked. (I would have played, but Hallie and I weren't willing to give up a suitcase or carry on bag space to bring our own discs. Instead, we walked along, chatting with and spotting for the boys and taking dance pictures.) After we finished the course, we hiked some of the Sedona Loop Trail and walked around Posse Ground park before visiting Sedona's Tlaquepaque Arts and Crafts Village.











We were gone for five days total, and while I probably could have hiked for one more day, I also felt like we did this trip just right: we had the opportunity to see and do all of the experiences on our bucket list, and were also ready to get back home to our babies when the five days had come to an end. 

Our 2024 spring break wasn't just fun, it was Grand.

Friday, April 12, 2024

High Five for Friday (4.12.24)


One

This week started off an awful lot like last week, but thankfully, things started to improve as we inched toward Friday. Hallelujah!

Last Thursday with friends (and then again last Friday with a different friend), I discovered a new (to me) - and close to home - Mexican restaurant. It earned bonus points on Thursday with free queso and on Friday with karaoke!

We didn't sing - this is the host - but
maybe next time we'll give it a try!


Fun fact: I didn't enjoy Mexican food until we moved to Texas, and now I think I'd choose it over just about any other type of cuisine! 


Two

It's been a good sports week! 1) Caitlin Clark, Kate Martin, Hannah Stuelke, Gabby Marshall, and the Iowa Hawkeyes played a great NCAA tournament final against Dawn Staley's unbelievable Lady Gamecocks. 2) I won our family's NCAA men's tournament bracket competition for the first time in years. The USWNT won the She Believes Cups in a shootout. And 3) I scored tickets for Tom and Will to see Brazil and Mexico battle it out on the pitch in Kyle Field in June!


Three 

On Saturday night Tom and I actually dressed up and went out - to a wedding dinner in honor of a friend and co-worker of his - for the first time since last summer. We left the kids to fend for themselves for dinner/entertainment, and they proved they're perfectly capable by going grocery shopping (with my money), cooking/preparing what they purchased (frozen taquitos, sushi, salad, and Pop Rocks Oreos), and (mostly) cleaning up after themselves!


Four 

On Sunday afternoon Hallie's ballet company - Encore - performed their end of the year gala. Hallie did a beautiful job, and Will only dozed off a couple of times, which was a vast improvement over last year's Encore gala. 😉  I filmed all of their dances during the second performance but haven't had a chance to upload them to my computer or YouTube yet - I'll share a couple of my favorites once I've taken care of that step!






Five

Last but not least, a story I've been waiting to tell until Hallie's 15th birthday...

My youngest cousin on my dad's side of the family was born shortly after my 15th birthday. As the eldest cousin, I got first dibs on holding Valerie (after all of the grandparents, aunts, and uncles, of course), and I remember looking at her - so fresh and new to the world - in my arms and feeling...old. 15 felt practically grown when I compared myself to that teeny, tiny baby.

I also remember realizing - and this blew my mind at the time - that when Valerie grew up and reached the age I was at the time, I too would have grown up...and I would be 30.

Fast forward those 15 years, to the day when at 30 years old I introduced newborn Hallie to 15-year-old Valerie. I told Valerie the story about realizing that when she would turn 15 I would turn 30, and I explained that the same would be true for Hallie and her. Without missing a beat, she replied, "yep, and then you'll be 45!"

Touché, Valerie. Happy 30th birthday. 😉

You're welcome, for this amazing picture of me.


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Happy weekend, friends!

Wednesday, April 10, 2024

15

Here we are...15. 

Despite many beautiful moments, experiences, and successes, I don’t think Hallie would describe the last 12 months as “her year.” 

She started high school, and while she has done exceptionally well academically, her introverted personality, “old soul” tendencies, and intolerance for shenanigans - along with the fact that school has never been the foundation on which she's built her social network - have meant she doesn’t quite fit in with her freshman peers. 

She continued to dance - primarily ballet, but also contemporary ballet, jazz, and hip hop - and while she achieved a glorious goal so far-reaching she didn’t dare speak it, she also dealt with a number of disappointments and frustrations.

She continued to sing, and while her daily training translated to improved technique and confidence as a choir member, she didn't find a community within choir as she - and I - hoped she would.

She developed a balanced and mutually enjoyable relationship with Will - seeming to catch (pass? 😂) him in many ways maturity-wise - just in time to realize how little time she has left with him at home. 

She is facing a couple of tough decisions in the weeks and months to come, and while I truly believe that growth and goodness will follow her down whichever path she chooses, the fact that she has to make these choices at all is weighing heavily on her shoulders. 

She is strong and brave and capable, but she is looking for easier, brighter days.

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12 years ago I began the tradition (2012, 2013, 2014, 2015, 2016, 2017, 2018, 2019, 2020, 2021, 2022, 2023) of sharing a song - one that reminds me of her and encompasses what I hope for her as she grows older - with Hallie on her birthday. I chose this year's song only a couple of weeks ago, and I came across it accidentally, when I was cleaning out my phone photo album and came across a video that Hallie and her bestie, Avery, had filmed on my phone more than a year ago.


Ooh child
Things are gonna get easier
Ooh child
Things'll get brighter

Some day, yeah
We'll put it together and we'll get it undone
Some day
When your head is much lighter

Some day, yeah
We'll walk in the rays of the beautiful sun
Some day
When the world is much brighter

As much as I hope for easier, brighter days, I know this outcome isn't promised to any of us. There will be easier and brighter times, yes. But there will also be hard times. There will be dim and even dark times. 

But my girl - my tiny firecracker who grew into a kind, compassionate, trustworthy, open-minded, introverted old soul (with the tiniest spark of rebellion) - can do this. She is strong and brave and more capable than she knows, and she is well on her way to being ready for everything the world will undoubtedly throw at her. But that doesn't mean I won't keep hoping for easier, brighter days so she can bask in the sun. 

Friday, April 5, 2024

High Five for Friday (4.5.24)

 



Programming note: this week has kind of gone to hell in a handbasket, to the point that I'd like to skip my HFFF post completely. I'm going to power through though, because the whole point is to find the good even when finding the good is hard. If this week is hard for you, know that you're in my thoughts and that I'm hoping next week is better.


One

Sadly, this is my last weekly Lads update for the 2023-2024 season. After an amazing second round playoff win last Friday night (they scored the go-ahead goal with 26 seconds left in regulation), they fell in the third round on Tuesday night.

I honestly can't yet write about the end of - or any part of, for that matter - the Lads' season or look at pictures from this past week without crying, so for now I'm simply going to sign off  by saying that our Lads left absolutely everything they had on the field that night and I couldn't be prouder of them. 

#wegoagain...next year.


Two

10 years ago my parents gave Tom and me a membership to AAA as a Christmas present. Since then, they've renewed it every year, and when Will got his license they added him to our membership as well. This week I took advantage of that membership for the first time (and I needed them not just once, but twice), and they were awesome to work with.



Three

Last Thursday night Will casually asked if I wanted to go watch his high school's baseball game with him. I tried to act cool when I said I'd love to join him, but I think he sensed my excitement and borderline glee at the invitation. I love spending time with that kid, and I don't take one second of it for granted.


Four

Caitlin Clark and the Iowa Hawkeyes, amiright?! As Hawkeyes and fans of Lisa Bluder (Iowa's coach, who started at Iowa while we were students), Caitlin Clark, college basketball, and women's sports in general, Tom and I are loving every minute of the women's NCAA basketball tournament.


Five

On Wednesday, we celebrated one of my best friend's birthdays...by taking a pottery class! Jenn and Anne already know what they're doing at the potter's wheel, but Mandi and I were brand new to the experience and we all had such a blast. Happy birthday, Jenn! 

More experienced = a blindfold challenge.

They both did amazingly well!






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Posting note: next week's midweek post will be on Wednesday instead of Tuesday - "see" you then!

Tuesday, April 2, 2024

Monthly Medley: March 2024


 

Reading

I read TWO books in March - this is a first for me, at least since I became a parent 17+ years ago. 😂 First up was The Lies I Tell, about a female con artist and the woman who has waited years to expose her, by Julie Clark. I loved Clark's layered female leads, and her ability to explore and explain the complicated entanglement of revenge and justice. 


I liked Clark's writing so much that I dove into The Last Flight, a thriller about two women - in completely different situations - who risk everything to disappear from their lives, the day after I finished The Lies I Tell. I appreciated how Clark once again created complex, female characters that readers could initially relate to and to whom, over time, readers could truly understand, support, and root for.


Watching

Hallie and I are SO close to finishing Modern Family, so we've been powering through that and watching little else. We're going to need a new sitcom when we reach the end though, so recommendations for something similar to watch next would be appreciated!

On my own, I've watched the first few episodes of Tracker and the pilot episode of Elsbeth, both of which I've really enjoyed!


Listening To

I'm still listening to Swindled, and despite the host's attempts to put me to sleep with his voice (and the fact that he drives me crazy by mispronouncing "sing/ing," "ensue," and "escape"), I can't turn this podcast off. 

I also noticed that Serial just dropped episodes one and two of its fourth season - about the history of Guantánanamo - and I'm looking forward to jumping into that when I take my next road trip!


Following

Frannie's Fight (@frannies.fight) follows the sweetest golden retriever as she battles back to health after a lifetime of abuse, neglect, and obesity. I can't not feel good when I see her working hard to regain what she's lost and loving her life for the first time. 


Trying/Using

Hallie needed new resistance bands after ripping a couple and losing a couple to kittens/cats, so we picked out and have been very happy with these - they span a wide variety of tensions and are the prettiest colors we've found!

I love Fossil wallets, so when my most recent one broke (the snap stopped working), I started searching their newest regular and outlet store products. I couldn't find anything I liked though - the colors and patterns from the recent lines just weren't speaking to me - so I decided to go with a cheaper version from Amazon instead. I actually really like both this "every day" wallet and this extra slim wallet (which I picked up for travel or whenever I need to lighten my load), as they are both small but functional, come in lots of pretty colors, and thus far appear to be good quality. 


Wearing

I've pretty much been rocking my Consol gear - and now my playoffs and district champions shirts - all month... 😉


Eating/Drinking

Sadly, I have no new recipes to share this month. Though I did cook some, it wasn't much, given that we've all been running around like chickens with our heads cut off (plus we were gone for spring break and my oven is acting up again), and I didn't try anything new - the craziest months require sticking to our staples and standbys!


Feeling Good About

Happy March, friends!