I talk about these topics each year around this time, so for those of you who read Chasing Roots regularly, this post may feel familiar.
The first topic is an important one, so please give the section a quick read and consider either participating yourself - if you plan to welcome trick-or-treaters to your home this year - or sharing the post so others can jump on board the teal pumpkin band wagon.
The second topic is important in a different way, and stems from an experience Hallie and her friends had while trick-or-treating two years ago. Addressing this may come across - at least a little bit - like I'm a Halloween soap box, but I feel strongly enough about it to share it again.
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At 12-years old, Will trick-or-treated like a "normal" kid for the first time. He didn't have to gently sift through bowls of candy looking for a piece he could safely eat, or say "no thank you" and walk away with nothing at all if the candy offered contained or might contain peanuts. I didn't have to read the labels on or look up the ingredients in any piece of candy he brought home. He sampled anything and everything without fear.
This wasn't always the case for Will and our family. As my regular readers know, Will has a peanut allergy. Five years ago he completed a months-long peanut desensitization, and he is currently in his sixth year of maintenance during which he eats 12 peanuts every single day (without issue) to maintain that desensitized state. Sadly, not all kids with peanut allergies are so lucky, which is why, after participating for the first time in 2014 when it officially hit front porches nationwide, we continue to participate in the Teal Pumpkin Project.
For those who haven't yet heard of this Food Allergy Research and Education (FARE) project, here's the background information and a quick summary. At least one in 13 children (perhaps as many as one in 11 children) have a food allergy, and many more suffer from Celiac Disease, eat a restricted or special diet, or receive their nutrients via tube feeding. For these children - those who can't consume any of the items received while trick-or-treating or who can't trick-or-treat at all - Halloween doesn't have the same sparkle. The Teal Pumpkin Project began as a local awareness activity in Eastern Tennessee and grew into a nationwide campaign to "raise awareness about food allergies and promote the inclusion of all trick-or-treaters" and aims to ensure every child can experience a safe, happy holiday.
Participating in the Teal Pumpkin Project is easy.
- Pick out a pumpkin, paint it teal, and place it on your front porch on Halloween.
- Provide non-food treats - pencils, erasers, stickers, bubbles, and plastic vampire teeth have been popular at our house - for trick-or-treaters.
The goal here is not to exclude candy; FARE suggests simply putting candy in one bowl, and non-food treats in a separate bowl. And if you don't have time to buy and/or paint a teal pumpkin, you can buy one online, order a fun sign for your front yard, or print out and hang up one of FARE's signs!
Painting a pumpkin teal or putting out a teal pumpkin on Halloween won't cure Will or anyone else of their allergies. But doing so is a step toward increasing awareness and making the world a safer place for people with life-threatening food allergies.
Let's paint the town teal!
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Every year I consider using a different picture, but I just can't
look away from that sweet, toothless grin nor can I forget how
seriously she took her responsibility to paint a pumpkin for Will.
I've since purchased a reusable teal pumpkin, but she still takes
responsibility for putting it out. |
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Two years ago, Hallie and her friends spent weeks (months?) planning their Schyler Sisters (Angelica, Eliza, and Peggy) Halloween costumes. On October 31st they dressed up, did their hair and make-up as authentically as possible, and headed out with their treat bags to enjoy what is usually one of the best nights of the year for most kids.
One of our neighbors answered the door and asked the girls how old they were. When they politely answered that they were all 12, she lectured them about how 12-year-olds are too old to trick-or-treat and that she didn't "allow" her 12-year-old grandson to trick-or-treat.
The girls were dressed up, incredibly polite, and 12. TWELVE. There's no way that 12 is too old to trick-or-treat.
Side note: I trick-or-treated through my senior year of high school. That might be pushing it, but my friends and I were always dressed up and polite, and for our junior and senior years we prepared a little harmonized song so that if people were grumpy about us coming, we had something in our back pockets to make them smile.
In the last couple of weeks, Grown and Flown (an Instagram page I follow) has reported on:
- A city that made it a CRIME for kids over the age of 14 to trick or treat,
- A family that ranted about kids from other neighborhoods coming to their neighborhood for their "good" candy,
- And people refusing to hand out candy until a child audibly says, "trick or treat."
I just can't with all of this, y'all. Halloween is supposed to be fun, for everyone.
There are so many unsafe activities kids - particularly teens - could partake in on Halloween. Teenagers who trick-or-treat are choosing childhood over the alternative, so when they come to my house, I will happily give them candy.
There are so many neighborhoods that are either unsafe or undesirable for trick-or-treating. Kids from these neighborhoods often come to mine on Halloween because lots of houses give out candy, there are sidewalks, and the streets aren't busy, and when they do again this year, I will happily give them candy.
There are many kids who are nonverbal or are nervous about talking to strangers. Kids who fall into these categories visit our house on Halloween every year, and when they do again this year, I will happily give them candy.
It's ok to dislike Halloween. But if that's the case, don't participate - just turn off the light (the universal sign for either "I'm not giving out candy" or "I'm out of candy") and call it a night.
They are only young (and young at heart) for so long. Please, don't take the joy of trick-or-treating away from kids for - or make kids feel badly about - hanging on to their childhood.
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Let the countdown to Halloween begin!
If you live in BCS and would like to stop by our driveway and experience Tom's candy cannon, email me at erinLferris at yahoo dot com and I'll share our address!
