In the end, and this ONE circumstance, Tom's procrastination ended up serving us well.
After our trip details were set, I started researching what I needed to know about and do before visiting Disneyland. Nearly every article and blog post I read started with (a more tactful and polite version of) "if you haven't started planning at least six months in advance you might as well not visit the parks at all, you idiot". After squashing an anxiety attack, I decided to take a page from Tom's playbook and just not worry about it. At all. It was one of the most un-Erin-like - and one of the best - decisions I have ever made.
I didn't buy the kids Disney-themed, personalized, and/or coordinated outfits. They wore comfortable athletic clothes and sneakers, and not only did Hallie not complain about her attire, she told me she was pretty sure a tutu or princess dress would have gotten in her way. I didn't schedule meals with characters, or schedule meals at all, for that matter. We ate at off hours, and I carried with me a few snacks to tide us over when necessary. We didn't schedule princess or pirate makeovers, knowing that if the kids really wanted to do something like this, options besides the Bibbity Bobbity Boutique exist. We didn't plan which days we would spend at each park until the night before, after we had checked the weather report and Tom's conference schedule and verified the park and magic hours. We didn't plan which rides and attractions to visit until the night before, and even then, we only planned the first two hours of our days. We didn't get any Fast Passes ahead of time (I don't actually think you can get Fast Passes ahead of time at Disneyland - that might only be a Disney World thing), but made great use of the Fast Passes once we entered the parks. We didn't stress about "doing it all", and instead focused on making sure everyone felt like they had a say in which rides we went on, which attractions we visited, and how long we stayed. And we left the last day of our trip completely open, which allowed us plenty of time to wander through Downtown Disney, shop for souvenirs, take full advantage of our hotel's pools and waterslides, and ultimately just rest up before heading back to real life.
This lack of planning translated into some of our best moments. We had ice cream for breakfast. Twice. We tried new restaurants because we didn't make reservations at the restaurants we would normally have chosen. Neither Will nor Hallie had any interest in dining with or waiting in line to see characters, or in a princess or pirate makeover, so we cruised right on by those lines and crowds and had that much more time for rides and attractions. We went back to the hotel when we felt like we'd done enough, rather than sticking around until late into the evening just because we could...and as a result discovered that we had a spectacular view of the fireworks out our hotel room window. Because we didn't schedule our days, we stumbled upon some really cool attractions we might have missed if we had been committed to getting somewhere at a certain time. We loosely planned our next two rides while waiting in line, and by getting one Fast Pass as soon as we'd used the previous one, we never waited longer than 15 minutes for even the most popular rides at both parks. We did each park's water ride at the end of the day, so that after getting wet the only thing we had left to do was walk back to our hotel. Speaking of walking...we tallied more than 22,000 steps each day and both kids CRUSHED it. Not one complaint about tired feet or wanting a stroller. (I was ridiculously proud of them for this.) We saw so many people waiting in line to ride the monorail the approximately 1/3 mile from Downtown Disney to the parks; we walked that distance, and were literally the first people in line to enter Disneyland on Saturday morning.
|The time difference meant we were up and out the
door of our hotel every morning at 6:20am. A short
walk to the the parks and voila - first in line at 6:40am!
- Book your flights, make your hotel reservations (I highly recommend the Disneyland Hotel), purchase your park tickets (use Parksavers for a discount), and then DON'T STRESS. There's no need to put together a binder or a detailed itinerary, and unless there's a specific activity you or your kids absolutely must participate in, don't worry about booking it ahead of time.
- Take advantage of each day's Magic Hour, and make sure to get in line to enter the park at least 20 minutes prior to the start of the Magic Hour.
- Hit the busiest rides that don't have Fast Passes during the Magic Hour. Once the park opens to the public, start using the Fast Passes: pick up a Fast Pass, visit a ride (or two) that doesn't have a Fast Pass, and then return to use your Fast Pass at the beginning of your scheduled window. As soon as you've ridden the Fast Pass ride, get another Fast Pass and repeat the process. As I mentioned above, with this system we never waited longer than 15 minutes for a ride...on a Friday and a Saturday in May.
- Do the water rides last, unless you really need to cool off.
- Don't feel like you have to stay at the parks until they close just because you can. If staying all evening means you end up with grumpy kids the next morning, it wasn't worth it.
- Take advantage of the fun your hotel has to offer! The Disneyland Hotel has two pools, two spas, and two waterslides, as well as an outdoor restaurant, two shops, and outdoor movies every evening.
- At Disneyland, don't miss the Indiana Jones Adventure (my favorite), Splash Mountain, Big Thunder Mountain Railroad, Hyperspace Mountain, Star Tours, and Finding Nemo Submarine Voyage rides. We also loved the show we saw - which we just stumbled upon - at the Fantasyland Theatre and eating at the Gibson Girl Ice Cream Parlor.
- At California Adventure, don't miss the Tower of Terror (though this is the only ride poor Will HATED), Radiator Springs Racers, California Screamin', Goofy's Sky School, Soarin' Over California, and Grizzly River Run rides. We enjoyed the It's Tough to be a Bug show and the Ghirardelli Soda Fountain and Ice Cream Shop, and both Tom and I LOVED - as in we went back a second time - the Animation Academy, where they taught us how to draw Disney Characters.
L...O...N...G story short, we had a wonderful bucket list trip to Disneyland, made all the more Mickeytastic by the fact that I couldn't plan the daylights out of it before we arrived. Lesson learned.
Not even the Happiest Place on Earth could keep Hallie from having a moment or two...