Just substitute "Texas" for "Florida":
Just prior to winter vacation, the morning temperatures in Texas were around 50 degrees and the expected highs during the day reached at least 60 degrees. Before leaving for school Will and I would step outside to assess the weather, and then I'd let him decide which jacket he'd like to wear or if he thought it was warm enough to skip a jacket all together.
On one particular sunny and wind-free 50-degree morning, Will opted not to take a jacket to school and I completely supported his decision. Even if he'd been a bit chilly outside at 7:40am, Will wouldn't go outside again until 11:50am when the temperature would almost certainly be considerably warmer. (Not to mention the fact that I didn't wear a jacket when I walked Will to school and was very comfortable.)
But that afternoon, when Will emerged from the school building he was upset about something. At first he didn't want to tell me what was bothering him, but eventually I coaxed it out of him... When it came time for recess, the teachers were troubled that Will didn't have a coat and worried that he would be cold, to the point that they made him wear a coat from the lost and found when he went outside. He was mortified.
I appreciate that Will's teachers were looking out for him, but I guess I need to let them know that there's Michigan blood - and not Texas blood - running through his little veins.
Thursday, January 3, 2013
Wednesday, January 2, 2013
New Year's Resolutions 2013
This year I decided to divide my New Year's Resolutions into four categories because it seemed like a more OCD organized way to go about the process. Perhaps my New Year's Resolutions should include something about being a little LESS organized and a little MORE spontaneous...
Professional Resolutions
Professional Resolutions
- Update (and/or enlist the help Ferris Creative Media, my cousin-in-law's graphic and website design company to update) the Midwestern Girl blog homepage.
- Develop a comprehensive plan - spanning from January 2013 through January 2014 - to help me better divide my time between the Midwestern Girl blog, our family blog, my professional writing commitments, and my volunteer writing commitments.
- Further develop my newest professional relationship with the Bryan-College Station Parent Network.
- Eat fewer carbohydrates. Drink more water. Drink exactly the same amount of beer.
- Make at least one new vegetarian meal each month and share my family's favorite recipes here on the blog.
- Go on at least one date (lunch and double dates count) with Tom each month.
- Spend at least one morning/afternoon/evening every three months with each child on his/her own. Do not waste one of these nights out on the Mom and Son Speedway (less than) Spectacular.
- Follow through on all those "we should get together!" exclamations. Call/email/text friends and make plans to actually chat over a cup of coffee, unwind with a cold beer, enjoy dinner out, or laugh through a movie together.
- To repeat a 2012 resolution, knit two scarves for friends with cold necks.
- Read, read, and read some more. Read in the name of entertainment, but also to learn more about and to widen the lens through which I view the world around me. Read a chapter book series (suggestions?) to my kids. Teach Hallie to read.
- Go to the movies. (In the six years since Will was born I've seen an average of one movie a YEAR in the theater. In the last two months, however, I've seen six movies in the theater - Wreck-It Ralph, Rise of the Guardians, Argo, and The Twilight Saga: Breaking Dawn Part 2...three times - and I've been reminded about how much I absolutely love the movie theater experience. When I watch movies at home I do so while simultaneously folding laundry, cleaning the house, writing blog posts, updating my online calendar, repeatedly sending children back to bed. When I watch movies in the theater I am truly able to relax and enjoy the film, and I leave feeling refreshed.) With Tom, with my kids, and with friends. When movies in the theater aren't an option, curl up on the couch - without any laundry or my computer - and enjoy Blockbuster rentals.
Tuesday, January 1, 2013
Yearly Wrap-Up - By the Photos
The paragraphs and statistics are no doubt valuable, but as the saying goes, a picture is worth a thousand words. Here are about 21,000 words worth of pictures...a glimpse back on 2012 through the lens of my camera.
As of today, the door to 2013 is wide open. My hope is to walk through the door and the year with the same confidence these two munchkins have, and to claim this year as my own. Happy New Year!
As of today, the door to 2013 is wide open. My hope is to walk through the door and the year with the same confidence these two munchkins have, and to claim this year as my own. Happy New Year!
Monday, December 31, 2012
Yearly Wrap-Up - By the Words and Numbers
I'm proud of how far Midwestern Girl has come since it began in April of 2011, and even prouder of the growth the site has experienced in the last six months. I'm fairly certain that when the site first went live, the only people reading my posts were my mom and sister. Recently, however, the site has received more than 100 hits each day and in the vicinity of 3,000 hits each month.
In case you missed them, here are the most popular posts according to the numbers:
And for your reading pleasure, here are my top 10 favorite posts - in no particular order - from the year:
Thank you for reading, for following (if you haven't already and would like to do so, just click on "Join this site" in the "Followers" box on the righthand side of the homepage), and for sharing Midwestern Girl with your friends and family. I am extraordinarily grateful.
In case you missed them, here are the most popular posts according to the numbers:
- No Bully Tour
- Tradition: Let's Get Our Yell On!
- Tradition: Reveille
- Kitchen Challenge: Desserts
- Tradition: Bonfire
- The Birds
- Dallas
- Tradition: Aggie Ring
- The Piston Cup, Or Not
- Pure Michigan
And for your reading pleasure, here are my top 10 favorite posts - in no particular order - from the year:
- My Apologies
- The Library Hates Me
- Why Iowa?
- Let Him Eat Cheese
- Obsessed, Parts 1 and 2
- Peace
- Where Do We Go From Here?
- A Baby No More
- My Vote Counts, Right?
- The Grass is Always GreenerIs Anyone Out There Listening?
Thank you for reading, for following (if you haven't already and would like to do so, just click on "Join this site" in the "Followers" box on the righthand side of the homepage), and for sharing Midwestern Girl with your friends and family. I am extraordinarily grateful.
Friday, December 28, 2012
Weekly Wrap-Up (12.28.12)
Today's Weekly Wrap-Up includes a few interesting photo slideshows and video compilations highlighting some of the year's best music, photos, and philanthropic efforts. Happy 2012!
Pop Danthology 2012
You may have already seen this video - it's been circulating around Facebook and I saw it on The Today Show last week - but if you haven't, it's worth checking out. This mash-up of the music and videos from 50+ 2012 pop songs is really catchy and very well done. (Prior to this year, a mash-up of the year's pop songs would have meant very little to me. But now, thanks to two kids who like to listen to the radio and classes I take at the gym, I've become a fan of current pop music for the first time since I was in high school.) Have fun!
50 Best Animal Photos of 2012
According to BuzzFeed, these are the 50 best animal photos of 2012. I'm particularly partial to #9 (the goatobomb), #41 (the "racing" owl), #44 (the slothobomb), and #46 (the panda that was afraid of a toy dragon). I love me a good photo bomb, and they're even better when the bomber is an animal who has no idea what it's doing.
On the flip side, I was completely weirded out by #18 (the ducks crossing the road - I don't like birds) and #30 (the terrifying interaction between a diver and an anaconda) nearly made me vomit. Yuck.
The Year in Photos
Courtesy of the Atlantic, here are 135 images (broken into three parts) that truly summarize the eventful year that was 2012. I find myself drawn to the pictures - of both victory and defeat - taken during the 2012 London Summer Olympics, as well as the pictures of brave men and women standing up for what they believe in. They give me hope that the coming year will be more peaceful than the last.
Part 1, Part 2, Part 3
American Red Cross 2012 Year in Review
A quick glimpse into the outreach provided by the American Red Cross this year. In between launching a new first aid app, collecting blood, and facilitating the Holiday Mail for Heroes program, the Red Cross has been on the ground responding to severe storms and tornadoes in Indiana and West Virginia, wildfires in Colorado, Hurricane Isaac, and Superstorm Sandy.
Pop Danthology 2012
You may have already seen this video - it's been circulating around Facebook and I saw it on The Today Show last week - but if you haven't, it's worth checking out. This mash-up of the music and videos from 50+ 2012 pop songs is really catchy and very well done. (Prior to this year, a mash-up of the year's pop songs would have meant very little to me. But now, thanks to two kids who like to listen to the radio and classes I take at the gym, I've become a fan of current pop music for the first time since I was in high school.) Have fun!
According to BuzzFeed, these are the 50 best animal photos of 2012. I'm particularly partial to #9 (the goatobomb), #41 (the "racing" owl), #44 (the slothobomb), and #46 (the panda that was afraid of a toy dragon). I love me a good photo bomb, and they're even better when the bomber is an animal who has no idea what it's doing.
On the flip side, I was completely weirded out by #18 (the ducks crossing the road - I don't like birds) and #30 (the terrifying interaction between a diver and an anaconda) nearly made me vomit. Yuck.
The Year in Photos
Courtesy of the Atlantic, here are 135 images (broken into three parts) that truly summarize the eventful year that was 2012. I find myself drawn to the pictures - of both victory and defeat - taken during the 2012 London Summer Olympics, as well as the pictures of brave men and women standing up for what they believe in. They give me hope that the coming year will be more peaceful than the last.
Part 1, Part 2, Part 3
American Red Cross 2012 Year in Review
A quick glimpse into the outreach provided by the American Red Cross this year. In between launching a new first aid app, collecting blood, and facilitating the Holiday Mail for Heroes program, the Red Cross has been on the ground responding to severe storms and tornadoes in Indiana and West Virginia, wildfires in Colorado, Hurricane Isaac, and Superstorm Sandy.
The Best Astronomy Images of 2012
These 21 pictures of our universe make me feel very, very insignificant, but simultaneously remind me that I am - that we all are - part of a world much more massive and powerful than I can fathom.
26 Moments That Restored Our Faith in Humanity
Last but not least, 26 photos that will remind you that all is not lost. That there is good and hope and love all around us, visible when we stop - or even slow down - long enough to not just look, but to see.
Thursday, December 27, 2012
Resolutions Review
It's hard to believe that 2012 is coming to a close...just last month I finally stopped accidentally writing "2011" (and then crossing it off and writing "2012") on my checks.
At the beginning of 2012 I made three sets of New Year's Resolutions: personal resolutions, Red Cross-related resolutions, and Texas-related resolutions. I've decided that my Red Cross and Texas resolutions should be considered ongoing to-do lists instead of resolutions, so I'll check back in on those another time. The personal resolutions remain resolutions, however, which means it's time to reflect on what I accomplished (and didn't accomplish) during the last 12 months. Here are a few highlights...
Stop giving in to Hallie's ridiculous bedtime demands and teach that girl to GO. TO. BED.
In July, we'd made very little progress since January. And now, in December, we've made very little progress since July. We don't give in to Hallie, but that doesn't mean she doesn't still make demands ("I NEED SOCKS ON MY HANDS!, YOU NEED TO CURL MY HAIR!, I NEED TO WEAR A LEOTARD!, MY PINK OCTOPUS IS LOOKING AT ME!, I FORGOT TO MAKE A SNOW ANGEL IN MY SWIMSUIT!"). Since Tom and I can't seem to figure out how to smooth out Hallie's bedtime routine, we've started making it interesting by placing bets on how many times she'll come out of her room and hiding as soon as we hear her door open. I'm not proud of our behavior, but it keeps us sane. Sort of.
Teach Will how to independently use his inhaler and epi-pen in preparation for kindergarten.
Success! Will isn't yet allowed to self-administer his inhaler and epi-pen at school, but he now knows when and how to use both and will be officially ready to go when he starts first grade next fall (there's quite a bit of paperwork involved and we're not going to tackle it until this summer).
Enter the doors to Target ONLY with a list. Stick to the list.
I always have a list. Once or twice I actually stuck to the list.
Meet Tom for a lunch date at least once each month. Choose restaurants where our meals cost less than $20 combined.
Ha. During the first six months of the year we went on one lunch date, on one double date with my sister and bro-in-law, and to one wedding. We did a little better during the second six months of the year, but that's only because College Station finally got a Panera and we're both willing to drop just about everything for a chance to enjoy their coffee (him) and pastries (me).
Finalize our will, set up a 529 plan for Hallie, and start contributing regularly to both kids' 529 plans.
I haven't finalized our will (argh), but I finally took care setting up and contributing to the kids' 529 plans. These college savings plans may be my greatest accomplishment this year.
Address the "Ferris Family Recliner Situation". More specifically, reupholster Tom's teal recliner so that it can move from the garage to our bedroom. OR...purchase a new recliner and convince Tom that the new recliner is in fact his old recliner reupholstered.
This task was accomplished during the first half of the year and was my first official success, which I think say something about how important addressing the recliner situation was to me. The chair remains Tom's absolute favorite seat in the house.
Read one book each month and figure out how to check out library books on my Nook.
During the first six months of the year I read one book each month. Exactly halfway through the year I discovered The Hunger Games, and since that day, I've been devouring books like my life depended on it. In addition to reading all three books in The Hunger Games series (The Hunger Games, Catching Fire, and Mockingjay) twice, I also read The Silver Linings Playbook, The Help, Moonpool, 11/22/63, The Next Best Thing, all four books in the Twilight Saga (Twilight, New Moon, Eclipse, and Breaking Dawn), and The Christmas Train. I'm so pleased that I made - and kept - this particular resolution, because along with discovering The Hunger Games trilogy and the Twilight Saga stories, it has reminded me how much I love to read and really invigorated my mind. Oh, and the library's e-reader system isn't compatible with Nooks. Just my luck.
Knit two scarves for friends/family members who live in climates where scarves are worn.
I finished two scarves but haven't gifted them yet. Want a new scarf? Let me know in the comments and I'll send one your way!
Climb into bed no later than 11pm with the goal of turning off the light by 11:30pm. Skip the late-night reruns of Grey's Anatomy - it's not like I haven't seen them all two or three times before.
The television networks made this one easy for me during the second half of the year - they replaced Grey's Anatomy reruns with reruns of some other crappy crime drama that I found considerably less interesting than every book I've read since June. I'm still tired on Monday mornings, but at least now it's because I stayed up late reading about Bella and Edward.
Stop complaining about the heat.
Ha. Never gonna happen.
How about you? How did you do on your New Year's Resolutions?
At the beginning of 2012 I made three sets of New Year's Resolutions: personal resolutions, Red Cross-related resolutions, and Texas-related resolutions. I've decided that my Red Cross and Texas resolutions should be considered ongoing to-do lists instead of resolutions, so I'll check back in on those another time. The personal resolutions remain resolutions, however, which means it's time to reflect on what I accomplished (and didn't accomplish) during the last 12 months. Here are a few highlights...
Stop giving in to Hallie's ridiculous bedtime demands and teach that girl to GO. TO. BED.
In July, we'd made very little progress since January. And now, in December, we've made very little progress since July. We don't give in to Hallie, but that doesn't mean she doesn't still make demands ("I NEED SOCKS ON MY HANDS!, YOU NEED TO CURL MY HAIR!, I NEED TO WEAR A LEOTARD!, MY PINK OCTOPUS IS LOOKING AT ME!, I FORGOT TO MAKE A SNOW ANGEL IN MY SWIMSUIT!"). Since Tom and I can't seem to figure out how to smooth out Hallie's bedtime routine, we've started making it interesting by placing bets on how many times she'll come out of her room and hiding as soon as we hear her door open. I'm not proud of our behavior, but it keeps us sane. Sort of.
Teach Will how to independently use his inhaler and epi-pen in preparation for kindergarten.
Success! Will isn't yet allowed to self-administer his inhaler and epi-pen at school, but he now knows when and how to use both and will be officially ready to go when he starts first grade next fall (there's quite a bit of paperwork involved and we're not going to tackle it until this summer).
Enter the doors to Target ONLY with a list. Stick to the list.
I always have a list. Once or twice I actually stuck to the list.
Meet Tom for a lunch date at least once each month. Choose restaurants where our meals cost less than $20 combined.
Ha. During the first six months of the year we went on one lunch date, on one double date with my sister and bro-in-law, and to one wedding. We did a little better during the second six months of the year, but that's only because College Station finally got a Panera and we're both willing to drop just about everything for a chance to enjoy their coffee (him) and pastries (me).
Finalize our will, set up a 529 plan for Hallie, and start contributing regularly to both kids' 529 plans.
I haven't finalized our will (argh), but I finally took care setting up and contributing to the kids' 529 plans. These college savings plans may be my greatest accomplishment this year.
Address the "Ferris Family Recliner Situation". More specifically, reupholster Tom's teal recliner so that it can move from the garage to our bedroom. OR...purchase a new recliner and convince Tom that the new recliner is in fact his old recliner reupholstered.
This task was accomplished during the first half of the year and was my first official success, which I think say something about how important addressing the recliner situation was to me. The chair remains Tom's absolute favorite seat in the house.
Read one book each month and figure out how to check out library books on my Nook.
During the first six months of the year I read one book each month. Exactly halfway through the year I discovered The Hunger Games, and since that day, I've been devouring books like my life depended on it. In addition to reading all three books in The Hunger Games series (The Hunger Games, Catching Fire, and Mockingjay) twice, I also read The Silver Linings Playbook, The Help, Moonpool, 11/22/63, The Next Best Thing, all four books in the Twilight Saga (Twilight, New Moon, Eclipse, and Breaking Dawn), and The Christmas Train. I'm so pleased that I made - and kept - this particular resolution, because along with discovering The Hunger Games trilogy and the Twilight Saga stories, it has reminded me how much I love to read and really invigorated my mind. Oh, and the library's e-reader system isn't compatible with Nooks. Just my luck.
Knit two scarves for friends/family members who live in climates where scarves are worn.
I finished two scarves but haven't gifted them yet. Want a new scarf? Let me know in the comments and I'll send one your way!
Climb into bed no later than 11pm with the goal of turning off the light by 11:30pm. Skip the late-night reruns of Grey's Anatomy - it's not like I haven't seen them all two or three times before.
The television networks made this one easy for me during the second half of the year - they replaced Grey's Anatomy reruns with reruns of some other crappy crime drama that I found considerably less interesting than every book I've read since June. I'm still tired on Monday mornings, but at least now it's because I stayed up late reading about Bella and Edward.
Stop complaining about the heat.
Ha. Never gonna happen.
How about you? How did you do on your New Year's Resolutions?
Wednesday, December 26, 2012
Outtakes
It's not easy to take good pictures of children.
Actually, it's really hard to take good pictures of children.
I have plenty of pictures of my kids running away from me, fighting with each other, and with their eyes closed, tongues out, or heads turned away from the camera. Those pictures were easy to take. I have far fewer pictures of both Will and Hallie smiling (real smiles) and looking at the camera, which - as much as I love candid pictures - are usually what I'm looking for when it comes to my annual Christmas card photo.
This year's photo shoot was one of our worst. Even though it was early November, it was hot outside, and because I wanted to the kids to wear clothes that looked more fall-ish than summer-ish, they were sweating buckets. Not to the mention the fact that I was also sweating buckets, and when my face sweats it makes holding my camera up to my eye much more difficult and uncomfortable. It was also entirely too bright outside, which meant lots of squinting if the kids were in the sunlight and poor lighting conditions if the kids were in the shade. And lastly, just minutes after we arrived at the park, Hallie fell into the marshy/swampy part of the pond and ended up covered in mud up to her ribcage.
If I lived within three hours of Chicago I wouldn't take pictures of Will and Hallie myself - I'd send them to my amazing photographer friend Carrie (she's an amazing friend and an amazing photographer) and let her work her magic. But since I don't live within three hours of Chicago, I continue to take these pictures myself. And thank goodness for digital photography, because I end up with A LOT of outtakes...
As you can see, Hallie is 97% of the problem. Will cooperates as well as a six-year-old can, but Hallie...that girl. She just doesn't seem to understand that the sooner I get my picture, the sooner the madness can end.
She's lucky she's cute.
Actually, it's really hard to take good pictures of children.
I have plenty of pictures of my kids running away from me, fighting with each other, and with their eyes closed, tongues out, or heads turned away from the camera. Those pictures were easy to take. I have far fewer pictures of both Will and Hallie smiling (real smiles) and looking at the camera, which - as much as I love candid pictures - are usually what I'm looking for when it comes to my annual Christmas card photo.
This year's photo shoot was one of our worst. Even though it was early November, it was hot outside, and because I wanted to the kids to wear clothes that looked more fall-ish than summer-ish, they were sweating buckets. Not to the mention the fact that I was also sweating buckets, and when my face sweats it makes holding my camera up to my eye much more difficult and uncomfortable. It was also entirely too bright outside, which meant lots of squinting if the kids were in the sunlight and poor lighting conditions if the kids were in the shade. And lastly, just minutes after we arrived at the park, Hallie fell into the marshy/swampy part of the pond and ended up covered in mud up to her ribcage.
If I lived within three hours of Chicago I wouldn't take pictures of Will and Hallie myself - I'd send them to my amazing photographer friend Carrie (she's an amazing friend and an amazing photographer) and let her work her magic. But since I don't live within three hours of Chicago, I continue to take these pictures myself. And thank goodness for digital photography, because I end up with A LOT of outtakes...
As you can see, Hallie is 97% of the problem. Will cooperates as well as a six-year-old can, but Hallie...that girl. She just doesn't seem to understand that the sooner I get my picture, the sooner the madness can end.
She's lucky she's cute.
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