Friday, December 25, 2020

Merry Christmas, From the Four Ferri


Oh, What a Year...

I led off last year's Christmas card by admitting that "2019 wasn't our year". Given the dumpster fire that was 2020, you might have expected a similar opening line this year. But I feel differently about 2020 than I did 2019. Yes, we experienced fear, anxiety, anger, and despair. But every negative emotion inspired me to find and hold on to its equal and opposite emotion. When so much of what surrounded us was bad, finding the good was easier than ever:

14yo Will participates in and loves all the sports. He still plays the cello, and was accepted into NJHS, became a coffee drinker, taught himself to play the piano, and started coaching youth soccer.

11yo Hallie has a song in her heart (specifically songs from Hamilton) and feet that just won't stop dancing. She has started to enjoy working on projects in the lab with Tom and has become an accomplished baker.

We all work and/or attend school at home. Tom still plays disc golf (often with Will and occasionally with Hallie, which makes the game even more fun), jams with friends, and invents "things". I shuttle kids to and from socially distant and masked extracurriculars, and feel grateful for the opportunity to do so as it makes life feel normal again. I also "keep the home" more than ever before (because everyone is using the home more than ever before), write when and where I can, and couldn't live without morning walks "with" my mom, friends, Friends, and pumpkin cream cold brews. Everyone except Tux loves our newest family project: fostering kittens.

What a gift this extra time with my people has been. I won't forget this year...for a lengthy list of unpleasant reasons, but for an even longer list of silver linings as well. 

From our home to yours, Merry Christmas.



Tuesday, December 22, 2020

Things We Love About Momma

A couple of weeks ago, Hallie realized that she hadn't given me one of my birthday presents. She ran to the office to grab her Chromebook, then brought it back to the living room and set it down on my lap. She reached over, smiled, and wished me a happy birthday as she clicked "play".


I tried over and over again to express in words what that video meant to me, in that moment on that difficult day but also today, after I've had time to process her sweet words...but I couldn't quite get it right. So instead, I'll just close with this: she makes me want to be the person she believes I am.

Silver lining alert: thank you, virtual school, for the technology skills she's learned this year.

Friday, December 18, 2020

High Five for Friday (12.18.20)


One
As of 1:30pm, we are officially on winter break. 

I honestly can't believe we survived a complete semester of virtual school, and I'm so proud of my kids - and a little proud of myself, honestly - for successfully navigating this drastic shift in learning style. Both Will and Hallie managed to maintain a positive attitude (about 80% of the time) and persevere on even their darkest days, and they're emerging from these four months with excellent grades, with vastly increased technical IQs, and generally healthy, both physically and mentally. Which is good, because in 17 days we're going to start all over again...

We plan to remain virtual for at least the first few weeks of our second semester (though Will will continue going to school for basketball practice, Athletics, and Orchestra), but we have the option to switch to in-person if/when we're ready. 

Two (Part 1)
Last Thursday Will's fall soccer season came to an end, and yesterday Hallie wrapped her fall season of dance. Just like I can't quite believe we survived a semester of virtual school, at times I can't quite believe sports seasons happened at all...and I'm so grateful for the leadership teams, coaches, and teachers who made it possible for these kids to keep doing what they love during a pandemic. No, these seasons didn't look exactly like what we expected or would have chosen if given a choice. But what a gift, to not only still be allowed to participate, but also to have had the opportunity to learn how to be flexible and accommodating, protect and care for others, and appreciate the small things.

Two (Part 2)
Though the event looked a bit different than in years past, our dance studio managed to pull off an amazing "Christmas Carousel" holiday production to end the season. For the last few years this night has been one of my absolute favorites, and the same held true this year; in fact, if I were ranking days in 2020, last Saturday - which also happened to be our 10-year Tex-iversary - would easily fall among my top three.

My friend, Anne, in her Facebook post about that day, said it best:

While COVID has stolen many dance moments from us, SSD (our studio) gave them all back last night. The teachers and staff were outdoors for over 12 straight hours. I saw the studio owner steal away to nurse her infant in a car in between dances. I cannot fathom the hours and hours of planning, prayer, and execution that went into giving this gift to the dancers and parents, and I hope they know how appreciated it is, how much they filled some empty places in our souls.

Tippy Toes (assisting)

Kinder Combo (assisting)

Tap

Jazz

Hip Hop

Contemporary

Ballet Academy Dancers in Blue

Ballet Academy Skaters

Company

Company

Company

The next few of Hallie's short solos are courtesy of our 
friend Danielle House, who is a budding photographer!












Two (Part 3)
And because we couldn't take our traditional post-Nutcracker photo of these two, these pics of them at the Christmas Carousel (scroll to the bottom of series) will have to do. 😉  

2013

2014

2015

2016

2017

2018

2019

2020a

2020b

Three
As bad luck would have it, our second week of quarantine overlapped with middle school basketball tryouts. Thankfully, Will's coaches graciously allowed him to tryout on the Monday he returned, and later that day we found out he made the 8th grade B team. He was both thrilled and relieved, as was I. 

Will would want me to add that while he would've willingly and gratefully accepted a spot on A team, he wasn't expecting or even aiming to make that team. He made the 7th grade B team last year and loved it, so 8th grade B team was his goal - I think there's a little less pressure, and he played (and will likely play) far more on the B team than he would on the A team. So it was "a win" all around.

They played their first game last Thursday, and while they didn't bring home the victory, they mounted an excellent comeback to finish within four. I can't say I enjoyed sitting on gym bleachers with lots of other parents and siblings (though this year they are limiting the number of tickets sold to games to make social distancing in the stands possible), but it was SO exciting to watch these boys on the court again.




Four
Ruth, Bader, and Ginsberg have now all left us for their forever homes...just as Tux was finally starting to tolerate them. And while saying goodbye was - and always is - hard (especially for Hallie), we already have our next "batch" of sweet babies! (More on the FOUR of them in a future post...)



Five
Happiness Highlights
Chris arrived with a mask this
year. I think he's cuter this way.

Not too shabby, December.

This cuteness lasted less than a second,
but we managed to capture a picture of it. 

Drive-thru Christmas light fun.

Ruth legitimately ate Hallie's science homework. And 
when I tried to take her picture with the paper to send to
Hallie's teacher, Ruth grabbed the paper and ran away.

Fun take-and-paint projects from Board and Brush!

Not a bad Friday evening...

Cheering for our friend, Kristin, as she ran her first
marathon! We collectively agreed we'd all always be
marathon supporters, and NOT marathon runners.

Gingerbread house fun!

Happy weekend, friends!

Tuesday, December 15, 2020

Love Actually IS All Around Us

During my first holiday season of blogging I shared two of my favorite Christmas videos. When my second holiday season of blogging rolled around, I shared the two videos from the first year and added a couple of new favorites in the same post so I could easily find them when I needed a holiday pick-me-up. The third holiday season I narrowed down the videos from years past and added a few more. Same thing during the fourth through ninth holiday seasons, and now in the 10th (?!?!) holiday season, the tradition continues.

So here they are: my favorites from past years and this year. Music videos and flashmobs and even commercials, all in one place, so anyone who needs an emotional or spiritual lift - myself included - can find them when the need arises. 

Happy holidays, friends!

In case you're wondering, my criteria is simple…if the song, performance, or commercial gives me chills, brings tears to my eyes, or makes me laugh out loud, it makes the cut. I'd love to see and listen to your favorite Christmas videos - I'm always growing my playlist - so please send them my way!

Little Drummer Boy: For King and Country
I love how this performance is high energy and high 
impact but also committed to the message of the song.


All I Want For Christmas is You: 
Mariah Carey, James Corden, and more...
Who doesn't love listening to this song at Christmas time?!


Hallelujah: Pentatonix
Perhaps the best song - and one of the best versions of it - ever.
The low notes in particular, especially during the fourth verse, 
make me feel like I'm having an out-of-body experience.

(YouTube won't allow me to embed this video - here's the link.)

Deck the Halls
My favorite flashmob of all time.


The Christmas Scale
"It's hard to believe that the greatest message the 
world will ever hear is contained in one simple scale."


Jesu, Joy of Man's Desiring
Another flash mob, this one by the talented Air Force Band.


Angels We Have Heard on High: The Piano Guys
I still get chills every single time I watch/listen to this video.

(Once again, YouTube won't allow me to embed this video. Here's the link.)

Joy to the World: Mormon Tabernacle Choir
I have always loved both this choir and this song; 
when they combine they sound like Christmas should!


O Holy Night: Boyce Avenue
I'd never heard of Boyce Avenue until this year, but I love their voices and 
the beautiful simplicity of their version of this elegant Christmas classic.

I Saw Three Ships: The Piano Guys
This one's for my husband. If you know him, you'll understand; if you don't
I hope someday you will, and that you'll have an opportunity hear him play the 
piano...while wearing a motion- and sound-driven light suit he built from scratch. 


Last but not least, a collection of my favorite Christmas adverts from 2020. While these are technically commercials, they don't feel like it; instead, they feel like tributes to family and friends, and I didn't make it through a single one without free-flowing tears.

Love actually IS all around us…we just have to look for it. On YouTube.